Okay so this guy in his earlier address put up a post which supposedly meant to advise Zambian men against marrying our very beautiful Zambian women who he described with so little regard and respect.
Allow me in a few words to address women who inevitably feel victimized by the sentiments that were vehemently charged at them by a fellow who all along has been believed to be about empowering women.
Now, drawing my conclusion from the comments by most women in response to his posts, I find it safe to say most women are disappointed because they were looking up to this guy and he had subconsciously put them in a position where they can confidently run to him should they need #Coaching in any aspect of their lives. That being said, allow me to derive an insight and hopefuly expose some women to the often obscure reality to this sort of scenario.
Ladies, if I were you at this point I’d realize that I don’t need a person to stage a workshop to tell me how capable I am to achieve my goals. I’d realize that I don’t need a couple of sessions by some coach to realize how beautiful I am. I’d learn to depend on myself for worth validation coz people’s opinion shouldn’t matter as much. Am not hating on life coaches and motivational speakers, there’s a few good ones out there but as long as you can’t tell who’s genuinely interested in your welbeing, know you are beautiful, know you are of immense value, know you are an achiever and are capable of doing absolutely anything and you don’t need a coach or an inspirational speaker or a papa for you to know you are all that. All you need is Jesus coz these men are decievers who are not interested in your welbeing whatsoever and their interest is getting money out of you with their charlatan self-ordained expertise.
And my word to you Mr Unsteady Not-So-Devine, I was born of a beautiful Zambian woman who was happily married to a Zambian gentleman, I grew up in the company of my two beautiful Zambian sisters who’s morals are not altered by what they see or are directly interpreted by what they put on Facebook. And my female friends and all ladies within my circle are beautiful morally upright Zambian women. Talk of me and my friends, man we are crazy about beautiful Zambian women. So I don’t know who raised you up, I don’t know who was in your circle growing up, I don’t know what sort of women you have dated and I don’t know you but just by looking at you I don’t know really if the problem is with them women or with you brother.
Allow me to close by quoting #Propaganda:
“If every part on your body that you touch hurts, then your fingers must be broken.”
Check how Steady and Devine you really are Coach.